Just Because It Feels Right Doesn’t Mean It’s Working

When discussing approaches to one-on-one investor meetings, one CEO told me, “I’m at my best just having a conversation. I don’t like being tied to a slide deck. That’s when I do my best work.”
He meant it, and he had reason to. He’d been at this a long time, knew his business deeply, and had been successful doing it his way. He believed the conversation would be more natural and more engaging if it wasn’t constrained by a structured presentation.


I sat in on one of his meetings at a recent CEM event. Twenty minutes, one-on-one, across from an investor seeing him for the first time. He was warm and clearly knowledgeable. And for most of the meeting, he barely stopped talking. He went on tangents, left dots unconnected, had questions with incomplete answers and no through-line. It was engaging, but it also left a great deal on the table. The investment case didn’t land the way it could have.

One of the most expensive mistakes a CEO can make is believing that structure gets in the way. What many CEOs worry about is that structure will make them feel stiff and less authentic. So, they walk in and trust the moment because the moment has always felt like their strength.


What’s missing is a framework that allows an investor to follow along in the moment. When investors struggle to stick with the story, the investment case is perceived as less compelling. He knows exactly why his company matters. He just hasn’t built the story that gets an investor to buy in.

Behavioral science calls this the curse of knowledge: when you know something exceptionally well, it becomes difficult to see it through the eyes of someone encountering it for the first time. You move quickly, skip the connective tissue, and use shorthand that’s obvious to you but opaque to everyone else. What reaches the investor isn’t your expertise. It’s the fog around it: This person clearly knows a lot. I followed perhaps a third of it, and I’ve lost the thread.


The leader is optimizing for the wrong person. He’s shaping the presentation around what’s comfortable for him, not what’s most useful for the investor to hear. It’s a blind spot, and an understandable one. What’s gotten him this far is exactly what stops him from seeing it.

Consider what investors are managing. At a CEM event they may meet one-on-one with eighteen to twenty companies in a single day, each asking them to understand a different business and reason to care. It’s a lot for an investor to hold in their head. It’s called cognitive overload, and virtually all investors in a room like this experience it.

This is a decision environment. The sharper your positioning, the easier it is for an investor to move toward conviction or move on.
We’re not talking about memorizing a script. A clear framework gives your expertise a structure to move through, so your personality and experience comes across more naturally. You still sound like yourself. You’re simply much easier to follow.


There’s something else being evaluated in the room that most CEOs miss: can the investor trust you with their capital? Can they retell your story to their clients or co-investors whose buy-in they’ll need? A case that can’t easily be repeated is a case they’ll struggle to get real support around.

Communicating clearly in a decision environment is a learnable executive discipline, one that lets a leader’s instinct and experience actually land in the moments that matter most.

We call that discipline Communication Leadership.